Hillbilly
Elegy: A Memoir of a Family and Culture in Crisis by J. D. Vance
“I related to this book personally,” I said as
we walked the ten blocks from my friend’s home to the Capital for the Women’s
March in Austin. “Of course you did,” said my friend. “You are a hillbilly.”
I am a hillbilly of sorts if you define
hillbilly as country – or what out in West Texas where I grew up we call
“redneck,” named for people whose work environment is more outdoor than in. But to a redneck, a
hillbilly is from the shallow end of the gene pool, and distinguished by bad
teeth, poor grammar, and the lack of at least a high school education. We all classify. Don't we?
The irony here is it could be the culture of disrepair described in Vance’s book, desperate for a voice – any voice - the current administration capitalized on, buoying someone otherwise undignified into a position of power – launching a universal outcry
symbolized by the Women’s March.
Author J. D. Vance’s story of ascent from Kentucky Appalachia
hillbilly to Yale graduate feels more an anomaly than the achievement of the
“American dream.” Although one might think his message is “I got out, so can
you,” the story is more along the lines of “It was really bad, but only as bad
as the distance from which viewed.” Vance grew up in a terrible environment of poverty, abuse, alcoholism, chaos and insecurity. But it felt normal to him when he was standing in the middle of it.
It only felt abnormal, and gave Vance his perspective, when he slipped
away, into the marines, eventually graduating from law school.
I don’t know that there’s an abiding message in Hillbilly Elegy, other
than when the disenfranchised crowd gets big enough, revolution is inevitable, regardless of whether the revolution is their solution or only imagines it is. In any case Hillbilly Elegy was an interesting and relatively well-told
story about a segment of our society we would just as soon not believe exist. It reminded me of Jeannette Walls jaw-dropping bestseller, Glass
Castles, about surviving an unimaginably deprived childhood, but less
poetic. Vance’s keen writing skills keep Hillbilly Elegy from being a pity party, and elevate it to “Real
Life 101.” Read it.
Close Range: Wyoming Stories by Annie Proulx
About thirty seconds into the audible version of Close Range, I turned off the sound
system in our car and said to my husband, “Wow, I’ve missed Annie Proulx! I’d
forgotten how well she writes ‘country’.”
Although I’ve only read a few of Proulx’s books,
That Ole’ Ace In the Hole, about pig
farming in the Texas Panhandle, is one of my favorite books of all time. Her
capacity to capture and articulate the “country folk” culture made me feel,
possibly for the first time in my life, that a college degree and big words,
aren’t necessarily the true measure of intelligence. I’ve known some stunningly
smart people who never made it past grade school (like my dad), and some
irrationally stupid college graduates (who will remain nameless), and Proulx’s
characters confirmed for me that people’s worth isn’t truly known until we
truly know them.
Proulx’s The Shipping News won both the
Pulitzer Prize and a National Book Award, but probably her biggest claim to
fame came as a result of the final short story in this Close Range collection, Brokeback
Mountain, which when made into a movie, won both an Academy Award and a Golden Globe Award.
Annie Proulx is one of those writers who’s
writing is so poetic you barely care the point she’s making, but she can certainly make her point in very few words. I’ll never
forget these two quotes in Brokeback Mountain when two cowboys can’t realize
the deep love they have for each other:
I can't make it on a coupla
high-altitude fucks once or twice a year! You are too much for me
Ennis, you sonofawhoreson bitch! I wish I knew how to quit
you.
If you can't fix it, Jack,
you gotta stand it.
Last Girl Before Freeway: The Life,
Loves, Losses, and Liberation of Joan Rivers by Leslie Bennetts
I never really wanted to like Joan Rivers’ bawdy,
acerbic brand of humor, but did appreciate that she and Phyllis Diller were two
of the pioneer female comedians who definitively pierced the gender barrier in a
standup comedy style dominated by men in their era. The leading themes in this mostly intriguing biography
are (1) Rivers achieved her extreme wealth and fame through a grueling work
ethic, a life of sacrifices, and by relentlessly fighting for everything she
got; (2) She was a dedicated wife, mother, grandmother, and friend (3) She always
had very low self-esteem.
If you’re looking for a blow-by-blow of River’s
obsession with plastic surgery you’ll be disappointed. But if you’re interested
in what it took to succeed as a female comedian in a culture that fought her
every inch of the way, you’ll be totally satisfied; author Bennetts does a
commendable job of presenting years of detailed struggle in an amazingly palatable
format. One of the things that jumped out at me was what a dedicated friend
Rivers was. There were so many testimonials about her loyalty and generosity –
not just monetary generosity, but her sensitivity and the time she dedicated to
her friendships. That impressed me.
I also enjoyed reading about River’s elaborate
parties, (she would rent huge yachts and sail large groups of friends all over
the world), and her home decorating style, best described as Louis
XIV on crack. There’s a lot of print dedicated to Rivers’ relationship
and eventual falling-out with Johnny Carson, and that part although initially fascinating, eventually became tedious. All in all, though, I finished the book
with a great deal more respect for Rivers, and if you like biographies of
celebrities, you’ll enjoy Last
Girl Before Freeway.
I Loved Her in the Movies: Memories of
Hollywood's Legendary Actresses by Robert Wagner
I remember slightly swooning as a teenager
every time Robert Wagner entered the scene of a movie, and I’ve always thought
he was a terrifically handsome guy, so I was interested in what he had to say
about the many Hollywood actresses he acted with, dated, and no doubt bedded.
When it comes to sheer numbers and royalty,
Wagner doesn’t let us down. We get his takes on Joan Crawford, Bette Davis,
Marilyn Monroe, Gloria Swanson, Norma Shearer, Loretta Young, Joan Blondell,
Irene Dunne, Rosalind Russell, Dorothy Lamour, Debra Paget, Jean Peters, Linda
Darnell, Betty Hutton, Raquel Welch, Glenn Close, and the two actresses he
married, Natalie Wood and Jill St. John.
His description of the “charisma of these women on film, why
they became stars, and how their specific emotional and dramatic chemistries
affected the choices they made as actresses as well as the choices they made as
women” was satisfying and interesting. He says up front his book
IS NOT a tell-all, and I can assure you it isn’t, Wagner one by one essentially
says, over and over again, they were beautiful, they were nice, and he had/has a deep and abiding
respect for them. But after a while it begins to take on an eye rolling
inspiring, gratuitous disingenuousness. Come on Wagner give us a little spice, a
little variety! Who was the best kisser? Who made big mistakes? Who turned you
down? Something! Skip this one.
The
Terror Years: From al-Qaeda to the Islamic State by Lawrence Wright
Timing is everything, and Pulitzer
Prize Winner Lawrence Wright, as a young journalist and Vietnam War conscientious
objector, ended up an “alternative service” teacher at American University in
Cairo, setting the foundation for his life-long immersion in, and journalistic
expertise on the culture and politics of the Middle East, al-Qaida, the Islamic
State, ISIS and terrorism.
When I began this book I keep
feeling like I’d read it before, and soon realized I had. It is a compilation of a
number of essays Wright had written for New Yorker, and a good bit was excerpted from his 2006
book The Looming Tower (the Pulitzer winner), which I devoured
and which introduced me to a new essential threat I’d never serious entertained before in my
lifetime. That didn’t, however, diminish my – well enjoyment doesn’t
seem an appropriate characterization of reading about the never-ending horrific
battle between religious factions – so let’s just say it didn’t diminish my
interest and intrigue and down-right astonishment at the volume and detail of
knowledge Wright possesses about that “world”. A world, that before 9-11,
seemed remote and of minimal interest, but on 9-11 became “our world.”
A lot of
The Terror Years illustrates the flagrant disregard of warnings
presented to the FBI and the CIA and the Executive office about threats made to
the US, making me wonder if lessons learned there are the reason more recent
terrorist activities in America have been single acts as opposed to
orchestrated events like 9-11.
Without
a doubt, hometown boy Lawrence Wright has a wealth of
knowledge and is a very commendable writer. It takes a certain dedication to
read non-fiction books that scare the hell out of you, so I can’t exactly say,
read it you’ll enjoy it, but I can say it is very good.
13 Ways of Looking at a Fat Girl by Mona Awad
Here’s what Julie Klam of the Washington Post said about 13 Ways of Looking at a Fat Girl. “I once met a woman who had no issues
with food or her body. Just kidding! I’m sure there are people like that, but
none that I know.”
My
body image has finally, recently taken on a more “health” and “a good example
for my grandkids” theme, but for most of my life it’s been about how I looked,
or more precisely how I thought I looked – viewed of course through the
carnival-like house of mirrors created by a world that significantly prizes androgynous, waif-like women; at least until Kim Kardashian made
big butts OK as long as they are accompanied by big boobs.
Awad
certainly isn’t the first woman to write about body image and weight and how
it’s dominated her life, but her book stands out because it is fictionalized,
and because Awad has a wicked, albeit dark sense of humor and a striking and
endearing writing skill. This author’s stories are all tinged with a cutting sadness that rings painfully true to my and no doubt many other women’s
experiences, but we trudge on through her unpleasant experiences because they
are validating and roughly comforting. And more often than not, we forget this
book is about the humiliating and limiting psychosis of body image and just
fall into the rhythm and euphoria of really good writing. Read 13 Ways of Looking at a Fat Girl.
The Best American Series - 2015 and 2016
Every year since 2009 (when I first discovered The Best American Series of Writing) I’ve
looked forward with excitement to reading The
Best Sports, Science and Nature, Travel, and Food Writing, chosen from thousands of articles in top magazines, newspaper and journals.
For example, in this year’s Best American Sports
Writing 2016,
edited by Rick Telander, Chicago Times
and Sports Illustrated columnist, I
was riveted by Ariel Levy’s Breaking
The Waves, about Diana Nyad’s horrific long-distance swims, and Brian Phillips’ Sea of
Crisis, about the mysterious world of sumo wrestling.
And although I was
aware that actor Andrew McCarthy had achieved some fame as a travel writer, I
was surprised to learn he’d edited The Best American Travel Writing 2015, including fabulous articles not intended to sell
hotel rooms, but rather to paint the true culture and soul of intriguing,
far-flung and not so far-flung destinations, like Kevin Baker’s 21st Century
Limited, about American train stations, “once the most magnificent in the
world…even in the smallest towns, they tended to be little jewels of craftsmanship,”
and then there was the very funny article by Iris Smyles called Ship of Wonks, about her adventures on a cruise for physics buffs.
In The Best American
Science and Nature Writing 2016, edited by celebrated science writer Amy Stewart, I was stunned by Gabrielle Glaser’s expose on the seedy underbelly of AA in The
False Gospel of Alcoholics Anonymous, and Antonia Juhasz fascinating take on the BP disaster in Thirty
Million Gallons Under the Sea.
In The Best Food Writing 2015, edited by Holly Hughes, former executive editor
of Fodor's travel publications, we learn about the latest food trends, what
food looks like in the farthest reaches of the planet, and we revisit the traditions
and nostalgia of family meals. I’ll never forget the article about
a four-day cooking and eating marathon in France prepared by a group of
gourmands.
I could
literally (or maybe not so literately) go on and on about how informative and
enjoyable these collections are – allowing us the best of writing on captivating
topics, without the expense of buying magazine and the hassle of sorting
through endless advertisements and less enlightening writing. I hope you’ll
check out The Best
American Series.
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