Sunday, December 18, 2016
100 Things I Want to Tell My Children And Grandchildren: #23
The measure of the quality of your life
is less about how well you plan than about how well you deal with what comes your way.
When I recently asked
one of my grandchildren how school was going she rolled their eyes and mumbled
something indicating unhappiness.
To that I replied,
“You better figure out how to be happy in that situation because there’s always
going to be something right around the next corner – a hard job, failure, fear,
hate, disappointment, bias, lies, shame, death, the list is endless – all things
that will make you miserable if you let them. And because misery loves company, you may unconsciously make
the people around you unhappy too, so you won’t feel alone in your misery. And
that’s no way to live."
Understanding this
truth and managing your emotions is the hardest thing you will ever do, and a lesson
you will probably learn many times. In
fact it’s a lesson I’m still learning. I’ve recently been very upset about
something - to the point of loosing sleep and crying. And then a friend told me
of caring for her dying son, and I immediately realized I was making myself
unhappy over something comparatively, ridiculously small.
You can
choose to be happy, but as with anything worth having, it requires effort –
forgiveness (ourselves and others), reflection, a positive attitude, self-control,
patience, appreciation, calm and more.
I don’t
have to tell you what feels better.
Here's a brief video of our Thanksgiving family camp out on the Blanco River. I wish everyone could have been able to come, but regardless it was a wonderful Thanksgiving. I hope you will take the length of one song to watch this.
Saturday, October 15, 2016
Cluster Critiques
Before the Fall by Noah Hawley
Before the Fall is a B+ suspense novel that
unflinchingly patronizes us with character clichés. There’s the failed but handsome
male artist, unwilling to compromise his talent in the face of poverty and alcoholism,
the pristine pre-school teacher uncorrupted by her marriage to a predictably
slimy media magnate, said slimy media magnate, his even slimier investigative
journalist, and Wall Street broker, a beautiful and too-hip “trustafarian”, an
abused good-hearted wife, and a perfect little 4-year-old boy.
Author
Hawley (who I should mention is a very successful writer of the “Fargo” TV show)
opens with most of these characters boarding a private plane, and immediately
and effectively punts our curiosity up to wide-eyed volume. What’s going to
happen? We find out pretty quickly when, 18 minutes into the flight, the plane
goes down, the only survivors being the artist and one of the teacher and media
magnate’s two children.
In spite of
his corny characterizations, Hawley does a commendable job of moving the plot
along, which includes possible terrorists involvement (wow what a surprise),
icky backroom politics (now that’s a unique plot twist), journalistic
sensationalism (really?), the hero’s struggle with the seduction of sex,
alcoholism and money (so original), and the heart-warming resilience of
children (yep, that too), to the point that this reader eventually just wanted
to throw the book across the room. But I didn’t, and you probably won’t either.
After
slogging through Before the Fall I saw a description that said it was “an exploration of the
human condition, a meditation on the vagaries of human nature, the dark side of
celebrity, the nature of art, the power of hope and the danger of an unchecked
media” and I just felt so cheap.
All Things Cease to Appear: A Novel
by Elizabeth Brundage
Since I’m
on an admittedly unentitled hypercritical roll, I’ll roll over on Elizabeth
Brundage’s most recent effort, All Things
Cease to Appear, another collection of boilerplate characters that promises
an interesting story, but doesn’t pay off. I would have tossed
this one for sure, but it was a book club choice, so I had to finish it.
Asshole, unethical, entitled professor marries gracious, naïve girl then moves
them all to an isolated country home, which happens to be the setting of a
previous, macabre murder.
Brundage
leads us right up to the cliff of intrigue
- a possible ghost story, possible romance, possible psychosis, possible
revenge, but she never pushes us over the cliff, and we just stand there
waiting and waiting for the plot to plunge us into a really compelling,
surprising story, and it just doesn’t happen. I really wanted to like this
book, which could have been good but just wasn’t.
The
Doctor’s Wife by Myra Hargrave McIlvain
Austin writer Myra Hargrave McIlvain’s book, Steinhouse, was one of my favorites in
2015. Having written many of the Texas roadside historical markers and much
about Texas history, McIlvain has a deep and detailed dossier of material from
which to draw her novels. But knowledge alone doesn’t create
readable history. What makes McIlvain’s writing so readable is her
extraordinary skill at extracting historic detail and weaving that with
realistic, compelling characters to create stories that resonate with
believability, cultural intrigue and adventure.
In The
Doctor’s Wife, Ms. McIlvain tells the story of a young German girl who
sails to Texas in the mid 1800’s, following the promise of the Adelsverein, a group of German noblemen committed to
establishing a “new Germany” in Texas – including New Braunfels, Fredericksburg
and many other communities. Upon arriving in Galveston, Amelia Anton had no
reason to be there. The young son she’d been hired to tutor has died, not
uncommonly, on the long voyage from Germany to Texas. Separated from her
family, young, and isolated in a land raw with the turmoil of slavery and war
with the Comanche Indians and the Mexicans, both of which were fighting off the
American claims for Texas, Amelia goes to work in Galveston’s Tremont Hotel,
cleaning and emptying chamber pots. Fortune finds her it seems, when she meets
Dr. Joseph Stein, who takes Amelia as his wife and moves her to another Texas
coastal town, Indianola, where he is desperately needed to help other German
immigrants who are ill, stranded and waiting for safe passage to inland German
communities.
What a blessing it seems for
Amelia to become the wife of the handsome Dr. Stein, but we soon find that in
addition to the extremely difficult lifestyle of primitive Indianola and early
Texas settlement, Amelia is faced with a loving but agamous marriage. Desolate
and confused, Amelia struggles to reconcile her relationship, finally finding
love on a beautifully told adventure to New Orleans, which sadly ends in
tragedy.
The reader turns each page
looking for hope for Amelia, for the German settlers, for Texas, and even for
Dr. Stein and his lover, Hans, all the while luxuriating in the sights, smells
and sounds of the Texas coast, Galveston and New Orleans, as so
elegantly and sharply penned by the author.
A dreadful smell grew stronger as their
carriage neared the French Market, a broad low roof covering an arcade of open
stalls. Next to the street, feathers flew from the hands of black children
plucking chickens. Women tossed the guts into the drain moving sluggishly along the street. Vendors waved long, thin loaves of bread. A multitude of
fruits and vegetables piled high on tables, and the aroma of coffee blended
with a cacophony of languages.
The best of historic novels put us in a significant
era of history, and in the spirit, passion and tragedy of the characters living
that history, like Margaret Mitchell’s Gone
With The Wind, Kathleen Winsor’s Forever Amber, and Myra
Hargrave McIlvain’s The Doctor’s Wife.
Ms. McIlvain has written an intriguing story about Texas history, in the
context of particularly unconventional plot twists, and about characters for
whom we grow to care.
A
Gentleman in Moscow: A Novel by Amor Towles
A voracious reader, my mom probably read Nobel
Prize winner Boris Paternak’s novel Dr.
Zhivago before it became a multi-Academy Award winning movie in 1965,
starring Julie Christie and Omar Sharif. And I suspect both had something to do
with inspiring her to travel to Russia in 1967 with a group of teachers, when
practically no one went to Russia, and the shadow of the cold war and Cuban
Missile Crisis still very much defined that country. Dr. Zhivago is the story of a physician and poet, set during the
Russian Revolution of 1917.
A
Gentleman in Moscow is about Count Alexander Rostov a former
aristocrat in The Russian Empire, who, having been accused of writing an
anti-revolutionary poem, is sequestered for life by the Bolsheviks in
one of the last bastions of pre-Bolshevik luxury, the Metropol Hotel. The
Washington Post astutely claims, “In an era as crude as ours…‘A Gentleman in Moscow’ is a charming
reminder of what it means to be classy.” And classy it is.
As
with his previous novel, “Rules of Civility”, in A Gentleman in Moscow we become enraptured with the poetry of Amor
Towles writing, which feels
like good sex on real satin sheets with Lead Zeppelin’s Whole Lotta Love playing in the background. Unlike “Rules of
Civility” we are also enraptured by the story – or perhaps more accurately, Count
Rostov enraptures us. I want him to be my daddy, my husband, my child, or maybe
just a distant uncle, for there was never before or since, anyone as cool as
Count Rostov. Alexander Rostov turns imprisonment, albeit fairly luxurious
imprisonment, into a fulfilling life well lived. The Count befriends the hotel
chef and conspires for years in a country destitute of food, to collect the
ingredients for a single night of Bouillabaisse. He beguiles and beds a famous
Russian actress. He raises the child of a woman he met in the hotel when she
was a child herself. He accomplishes amazing feats – the final of which
constitutes one of the best book finishes I’ve ever encountered – all within
the confines of a hotel. Here are a few Count Rostov observations that speak to
his, and this book’s, allure.
Count Alexander Ilyich
Rostov stirred at half past eight to the sound of rain on the eaves. With a
half-opened eye, he pulled back his covers and climbed from bed. He donned his
robe and slipped on his slippers. He took up the tin from the bureau, spooned a
spoonful of beans into the Apparatus, and began to crank the crank. Even as he
turned the little handle round and round, the room remained under the tenuous
authority of sleep. As yet unchallenged, somnolence continued to cast its
shadow over sights and sensations, over forms and formulations, over what has
been said and what must be done, lending each the insubstantiality of its
domain. But when the Count opened the small wooden drawer of the grinder, the world
and all it contained were transformed by that envy of the alchemists—the aroma
of freshly ground coffee. In that instant, darkness was separated from light,
the waters from the lands, and the heavens from the earth. The trees bore fruit
and the woods rustled with the movement of birds and beasts and all manner of
creeping things. While closer at hand, a patient pigeon scuffed its feet on the
flashing.
Whether through careful consideration spawned by books and
spirited debate over coffee at two in the morning, or simply from a natural
proclivity, we must all eventually adopt a fundamental framework, some
reasonable coherent system of causes and effects that will help us make sense
not simply of momentous events, but of all the little actions and interactions
that constitute our daily lives–be they deliberate or spontaneous, inevitable
or unforeseen.
“It is not the business of a
gentleman to have occupations.”
The
Girl with the Lower Back Tattoo by Amy Schumer
I can only tolerate about 3 minutes of Amy
Schumer in one of her stand-up shows, or in a movie, but I really liked her
book, The Girl with the Lower Back Tattoo,
which obviously is her humorous twist on the book The Girl with the Dragon Tattoo. Here’s why I like Amy’s book.
First, she comes across as much more intelligent and funny in her book. Second,
she has been taking really good care of her father, who has been living in
assisted living for more than 20 years due to multiple sclerosis. Third,
Amy, a victim of relationship abuse and sexual assault, has taken a vocal
position urging re-thinking about what constitutes consensual sex. And finally,
she and I are both introverts. I know, I know. No one believes I’m an introvert
either. I totally got her description of having to cocoon occasionally – to
isolate herself to recover from over stimulation.
The one thing I don’t get about Amy is her seeming
refusal to forgive her mother, who she previously idolized, for having an
affair with her best friend's father. It seems humans tend to be much more sympathetic
of people from whom we have little expectations, and less sympathetic of people
from whom we expect much.
The
Girl with the Lower Back Tattoo is good enough, and was for
me, an interesting study in Schumer’s generation.
When
Breath Becomes Air by Paul Kalanithi
Dr. Paul
Kalanithi couldn’t decide whether to be a brain surgeon or a writer, so he did
both, very, very well. When Breath
Becomes Air is Kalanithi’s story of finding out he had lung cancer (he was
not a smoker) and dying, at the age of 37.
As with Lao Tzu’s proclamation, “The flame that burns twice as bright burns half
as long,” Kalanithi had two BA’s and an MA in literature from Stanford, a
Master of Philosophy at Cambridge, and graduated cum laude from the Yale School
of Medicine, returning to Stanford for a
residency in neurosurgery and a postdoctoral fellowship in
neuroscience.
When first finding out about his
cancer, his “Dr.” instinct is to research, to pinpoint the probability of
living a year or a month – what he would do for his own patients facing death.
But what he discovers is that how long a dying person has brings no comfort.
“What patients seek is not scientific knowledge that doctors hide, but
existential authenticity each person must find on her own … the angst of facing
mortality has no remedy in probability.”
Seems there are lots of books written by and about
people who are dying but I doubt you’ll find one more beautifully written, nor
one with this special insight of a doctor treating the dying, who then himself becomes
the dying. “I had
pushed discharge over patient worries, ignored patients’ pain when other
demands pressed. The people whose suffering I saw, noted, and neatly packaged
into various diagnoses, the significance of which I failed to recognize — they
all returned, vengeful, angry, and inexorable.”
American
Heiress: The Wild Saga of the Kidnapping, Crimes and Trial of Patty Hearst by
Jeffrey Toobin
Several
generations remember where they were the day John Kennedy died, as do I. I also
remember the moment I saw this photo of Patty Hearst on TV in 1974. I was a
young mother living in the wilds of west Texas, about as removed as possible from
that distinctly revolutionary period in our country’s history. I remember
thinking, “Why would a small group of people take such legal risks just to be heard?” and “Why would someone kidnapped by a radical group take up their
banner?” It all just seemed so far away from my reality, and so radical, and
absurdly attractive for reasons I didn't understand.
Then I
completely forgot about Patty Hearst and the Symbionese Liberation Army until 1981
when I was hired to manage a ranch in New Mexico and was told the ranch was
formerly a survivalist commune and suspected hideout of the Symbionese Liberation
Army, which was under surveillance by the FBI, trying to find Patty Hearst.
So
basically, I have two pretty strong points of reference to Jeffrey Toobin’s
book about the incident of Hearst’s kidnapping and eventual conviction of
charges stemming from her collusion with the Symbionese Liberation Army in
their various illegal activities, including bank robberies, kidnappings, attempts
to bomb a police car and other similar activities.
Without a
doubt, The New Yorker staff writer
Toobin’s a smart guy (magna cum laude graduate of
Harvard Law School), and although I’ve only read one other of his books The Nine: Inside the Secret World of the Supreme Court, which I thought was quite
good, because I have an abiding curiosity about Patty Hearst, of course I had
to read this book.
At the time of her kidnapping Hearst was a student
at Berkeley, living with and engaged to one of her professors, and somewhat
estranged from her parents – descendants of the legendary Hearst newspaper
clan. The Symbionese Liberation Army was a small cell of left-wing
revolutionaries, not uncommon during the politically tumultuous 1970’s. Just as
they’d hoped, kidnapping a somewhat celebrity tied to a family with deep
pockets, brought more recognition to their organization than practically
anything else would have.
From that point forward, the story differs,
depending upon whom you believe. Toobin and the legal system at the time
believed that Hearst, resentful of (but not resistant to) the baggage that came
with wealth, and unhappy in her relationship with her fiancé, welcomed the
opportunity to break away from “the establishment” to establish her own
identity – to the point of breaking laws and participating in deadly actions. After
a lengthy hunt, many close escapes, almost inhuman living conditions, a
horrific gun battle siege of several members of the army, and the eventual
capture of Hearst and her compatriots, Patty claimed in her defense (led by the
famous/infamous Texas attorney, F. Lee Bailey) that she was a victim, was
raped, beaten and starved into submission, and had no choice but to be
complicit with her captors.
Ironically, after condemning her rightwing,
society-driven mother, living with the Symbionese Liberation Army for a year,
and serving 22 months in prison (Commuted by President Jimmy Carter and granted
a full pardon by President Bill Clinton) Patty Hearst married her “pig”
policeman bodyguard, and became very involved in the East Coast society scene. In
2015 her Shih Tzu won the “Toy” category at the Westminster Kennel
Club Dog Show.
If you have any interest in that revolutionary era of our country’s history you will probably enjoy this book.
If you have any interest in that revolutionary era of our country’s history you will probably enjoy this book.
100 Things I Want to Tell My Children And Grandchildren: #22
I know this
is pretty lame compared to the deeply philosophical lessons and stories I typically try to share
in "My 100", but there are just some things that no one ever teaches you to do!
Like how to fold a fitted sheet.
I can’t
tell you how many times I’ve tried to wrestle a fitted sheet into some
semblance of order, and I bet you have too.
So here ya go – one less life-frustration!
You are
welcome.
Thursday, August 25, 2016
Cluster Critiques
The Association of Small Bombs by Karan Mahajan
Reports of a terrorist attack in Paris keeps us
perched on the edge of our couch, horrified, vulnerable. Three young
boys sizzling with the joys of youth go to the market in Dehli, India on a
Saturday morning and two of them, brothers, are killed instantly by a small
terrorist bomb, and we never hear about it on the news. Small bombs in developing countries; who cares? Happens all the time.
The brilliance of The Association of Small Bombs,
other than the fact that it is written brilliantly, is that it takes the story
of religious terrorism out of the context of Islamic radicalism against
capitalism, giving us a less defensive perspective. It’s not about us versus
them, so we can relax into the story. It’s about eight people whose lives are
destroyed, redirected and sustained by the small bombs of death, loss, love,
disillusionment, religion and destiny.
The author, Karan Mahajan gets us off that
comfortable couch of distance and puts our hearts in the bedroom with the two
boy’s grieving parents, into the impossibly derailed life of the boy who
survived the bombing, and into the tragically ordained lives of a non-violent
Muslim activist and a violent Muslim radical. Each character roils in conflict,
dissecting the trajectory of their lives in a desperate search for meaning and
justification. Read The Association of Small Bombs.
Grunt: The Curious Science of Humans at War by Mary Roach
Mary Roach, in spite of having a
regrettably creepy last name, is my alter-ego because she has an insatiable
curiosity about the weirder aspects of otherwise ordinary things, and she is
very funny. In Stiff: The
Curious Lives of Human Cadavers, Mary wrote about what happens to the human anatomy after life has left
it. The most fascinating parts were when she described how bodies donated to
medical science are used – which led me to immediately change my medical directive. Scientists won’t be tossing my corpse out of a plane to see
what happens when it hits the ground. And then there were her books about sex, Bonk,
the digestive system, Gulp, Mars travel Packing for Mars, and
ghost, Spook - all of which I
read practically within hours of their release.
So now in Grunt: The Curious Science of Humans at War Mary
digs into military minutia to uncover the biggest challenges
that come with soldiering, like diarrhea, panic, exhaustion, heat, flies and
noise to name a few, and some unbelievably wonky things the war machine has
spent millions concocting in its quest for world
dominance. As it turns out snipers can’t have velcro pockets because they are
noisy, and seaman on submarines have to eat caffeinated meat to stay awake and
alert, and Hitler was nearly taken down by a stink bomb. When Roach ask a navy
commander why they wore blue camouflage, he replied, “That’s so no one can see
you if you fall overboard.”
Roach never fails to entertain and
astound. I recommend you read all her books because you’ll laugh and you’ll
learn – well maybe not super important stuff, but then I think learning why you
shouldn’t donate your body to medical science without caveats is pretty
important.
Born with Teeth by Kate Mulgrew
Born With Teeth is an autobiography by Kate Mulgrew, aka Red in the TV series Orange
Is the New Black and Captain Janeway in Star Trek: Voyager. Although
Mulgrew grew up in Middle America, geographically and economically, her
childhood was anything but average. First, she really was born with teeth,
literally. It’s a phenomenon called neonatal teeth, and they had to be removed.
She also had a condition called congenital analgesia whereby she couldn’t feel
pain, so she had to be restrained pretty much continuously for her own safety
until she was around four, when the condition disappeared.
But the “born with teeth” double entendre is about
her capacity for survival – much of which could pretty much mirror anyone’s
life. We all have struggles of one sort or another. But what made Mulgrew’s
book mostly readable and enjoyable for me was Kate and her mother’s extraordinarily intellectual and dispassionate take on life – that you’ve got to keep your head up
and deal with what comes your way – no whining allowed. I say “mostly readable
and enjoyable” because there were more than a few times in the book I felt
Mulgrew was trying to impress rather than bare her soul - not in a
name-dropping way, but rather in an “I’m so smart” way – and in fact she is,
but sometimes it came across as scripted.
I saw a quote from her in the LA Times that
I really liked in which she spoke of her very unglamorous role on Orange Is
the New Black, she said, “There's a kind of liberty when you let go of your
vanity and pay attention to your character. I want whatever I do for the rest
of my life to be excellent or not to be done at all.”
Not the best biography I ever read, but
certainly one of the better ones.
A Man on the Moon: The Voyages of the
Apollo Astronauts by Andrew Chaikin
I was surprised at how much more graphic A Man
on the Moon was compared to all the other books I’ve read about space
travel. The author, Andrew Chaikin, has an extraordinary capacity to
place you in the moment. Your butt puckers when he details the emergency
situations that accompanied nearly every single Apollo mission. You feel
triumph when one of the astronauts solves a really complex problem. Each
mission feels so urgent, dangerous and real, and Chaikin’s skill brings each
moment to life. Unlike so many portrayals I’ve read and movies I’ve seen about
the Apollo program, our astronauts weren’t just blasted into space and mostly
controlled remotely, they were mechanics and problem-solvers and death-defying
decision-makers. And then there were the men and women behind the space program
at NASA – the lives they lived, their singular focus
on launching humans into a virtually unknown abyss, and bringing them home
safely.
I’d also forgotten how many trips we
made to the moon. Somehow I’d sort of mashed my memory of that time into one
walk on the moon – there were nine missions to the moon. between 1968 and 1972.
Twelve astronauts walked on the Moon's surface, and
six drove Lunar Roving Vehicles on the Moon. Three astronauts flew to the Moon
twice. If you have any interest in the details of the Apollo program this is
the book to read. Very well done.
Very Smart Gals Salon
I lead
the most fortuitous life - somehow stumbling into amazing situations –
the most recent being the opportunity to judge a very large and highly regarded
statewide pageant for girls in Dallas. I
knew nothing about judging a pageant when I went into this gig, and maybe I
still don’t but I did learn three things.
- It’s a lot harder than it looks,
- The girls who won were the ones with the most poise, character, authenticity, grace, articulation, attitude, smile, and an ability to connect, and
- The girls who didn’t win were working on developing those skills.
And the
bonus for me other than the honor of participating and getting to meet about
350 of the smartest little gals in Texas, was that I got to bond with six very
smart grownup gals – my judging compatriots, Gina Johns, Andrea Nicole Sledge, Carol Lawson Johnston, Robin Dudasko, Mara Lee Burton and Leslie Hillin
(pictured l-r above).
When I
accepted the invitation to participate in the judging I was all aflutter,
worrying about what to wear, how to be a judge, losing 50 pounds in a couple of
weeks, but the six gals above were as centered as the earth’s core. They’d all
judged before, they knew what they were doing, and they were kind enough to
help me know where I was supposed to be, when, and how to get there. In spite
of the fact that I donned an actual evening gown for the first time in a decade
(photo) and got my hair (thanks to Victoria Doss) and makeup done (thanks to Ashley Sweeney) for the occasion, there’s not a
lot of glamour in roaming the bowels of a convention center looking for the
“backstage”. But then there eventually came my introduction as a judge, under a
very bright spotlight, to an enormous room full of moms, dads, sisters,
brothers, friends and neighbors, all of whom were exceedingly proud of a
courageous little girl on the stage who wanted to be her very best. And that
made me feel much more important than I really was or am. And it was fleeting
but exciting, and very gratifying.
Here’s a
little about the Very Smart Gals who were my partners in judging:
Gina Johns
is a 27-year educator with certifications in English as a second language, Dyslexia
and Special Education, and says “she has a heart for students with special
needs and has spent many hours tutoring, teaching and helping those students
gain the best education possible”. She has
also trained and coached volleyball, softball and cheerleading. Gina has
been involved in pageantry for many years, not only
judging throughout Texas, but also coaching
girls for competition. She
is an active volunteer in her community and church and enjoys supporting her two
daughters, one of which is an NJCAA National champion in college softball.
Andrea
Nicole Sledge is a Tax Accountant for GameStop, Inc. in Dallas,
and a plus size model featured in Venus
Diva, Skorch and Curvz Magazines. She has also competed
in the Texas Plus America, Miss Curve, American Beauties Plus and All World (Queen
of Queens Lifetime IV) Beauties Pageants, and has directed for Miss Plus
America and served as the auditor and head judge for the DFW Miss America
Pageant. Andrea believes that it is our duty “to live our lives with a
servant’s heart” and as such, she is involved with many local charities.
Carol
Lawson Johnston lives, as we say in Texas, “just up the road a
piece” in Elgin, where she is the director of Down Home Ranch, a
working farm and ranch where about 40 adults and children—including 32 with
Down syndrome and other disabilities—live year round. She is
the mother of four and says she “has watched with wonder as her children have
fulfilled their dreams”. Her daughter is a former Miss Texas USA and her son
has modeled with Tommy Hilfiger and Dillard’s. Carol is certified Christian
counselor and has a ministry that reaches out to parents who have wayward
children that are caught up in alcohol and drugs.
Robin Dudasko recently graduated with honors from
Texas A&M and married her college sweetheart. She too lives just up the
road a piece in Round Rock where she is Director of Youth Ministry at St. John
Vianney Catholic Church. In 2013, after 8 years of competing, Robin captured
the title of National American Miss Texas. She is also a former Miss Austin and
placed in the top 10 at the National All-American Teen pageant in Hollywood,
California. Throughout her reign as National American Miss Texas she traveled
throughout the state speaking to groups about cyber-bullying.
Mara Lee Burton, another nearby neighbor from Round
Rock, is a classically trained
singer who has performed on stages across the country, including New York and
New Orleans, and has sung the national anthem for many sporting events. Mara
participated in many pageants as a young girl, including Junior Miss and Miss
Teen Texas, winning the talent competition several times throughout her pageant
career. She has a BS in History from Texas State University where she coached
gymnastics and had back-to-back state champion teams. She also has a Master’s
Degree in Liberal Studies with a double focus in American Studies and Civil
Rights and Social Justice from Southern Methodist University.
Leslie Hillin, a graduate of Lamar University with
a Masters of Education, is currently a middle school counselor at Edwards
Johnson Memorial Silsbee Middle School in Silsbee. She has been working as a special education teacher
for the past 26 years. She has judged pageants
at the state level and enjoys working with the Miss Amazing Texas Pageant. She and her husband of 30 years have two
children and one grandchild. Leslie enjoys spending her summers at the lake with family and friends.
These Very
Smart were just some of the most humble, nice gals you’d ever want to meet, and
I so much appreciated their guidance, patience and camaraderie.
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