Sunday, December 18, 2016

100 Things I Want to Tell My Children And Grandchildren: #23


The measure of the quality of your life is less about how well you plan than about how well you deal with what comes your way.

When I recently asked one of my grandchildren how school was going she rolled their eyes and mumbled something indicating unhappiness.

To that I replied, “You better figure out how to be happy in that situation because there’s always going to be something right around the next corner – a hard job, failure, fear, hate, disappointment, bias, lies, shame, death, the list is endless – all things that will make you miserable if you let them.  And because misery loves company, you may unconsciously make the people around you unhappy too, so you won’t feel alone in your misery. And that’s no way to live."

Understanding this truth and managing your emotions is the hardest thing you will ever do, and a lesson you will probably learn many times.  In fact it’s a lesson I’m still learning.  I’ve recently been very upset about something - to the point of loosing sleep and crying. And then a friend told me of caring for her dying son, and I immediately realized I was making myself unhappy over something comparatively, ridiculously small.

You can choose to be happy, but as with anything worth having, it requires effort – forgiveness (ourselves and others), reflection, a positive attitude, self-control, patience, appreciation, calm and more.

I don’t have to tell you what feels better.

Here's a brief video of our Thanksgiving family camp out on the Blanco River. I wish everyone could have been able to come, but regardless it was a wonderful Thanksgiving. I hope you will take the length of one song to watch this.



Saturday, October 15, 2016

Cluster Critiques


Before the Fall by Noah Hawley

Before the Fall is a B+ suspense novel that unflinchingly patronizes us with character clichés. There’s the failed but handsome male artist, unwilling to compromise his talent in the face of poverty and alcoholism, the pristine pre-school teacher uncorrupted by her marriage to a predictably slimy media magnate, said slimy media magnate, his even slimier investigative journalist, and Wall Street broker, a beautiful and too-hip “trustafarian”, an abused good-hearted wife, and a perfect little 4-year-old boy.

Author Hawley (who I should mention is a very successful writer of the “Fargo” TV show) opens with most of these characters boarding a private plane, and immediately and effectively punts our curiosity up to wide-eyed volume. What’s going to happen? We find out pretty quickly when, 18 minutes into the flight, the plane goes down, the only survivors being the artist and one of the teacher and media magnate’s two children.

In spite of his corny characterizations, Hawley does a commendable job of moving the plot along, which includes possible terrorists involvement (wow what a surprise), icky backroom politics (now that’s a unique plot twist), journalistic sensationalism (really?), the hero’s struggle with the seduction of sex, alcoholism and money (so original), and the heart-warming resilience of children (yep, that too), to the point that this reader eventually just wanted to throw the book across the room. But I didn’t, and you probably won’t either.

After slogging through Before the Fall I saw a description that said it was “an exploration of the human condition, a meditation on the vagaries of human nature, the dark side of celebrity, the nature of art, the power of hope and the danger of an unchecked media” and I just felt so cheap.


All Things Cease to Appear: A Novel by Elizabeth Brundage

Since I’m on an admittedly unentitled hypercritical roll, I’ll roll over on Elizabeth Brundage’s most recent effort, All Things Cease to Appear, another collection of boilerplate characters that promises an interesting story, but doesn’t pay off. I would have tossed this one for sure, but it was a book club choice, so I had to finish it. Asshole, unethical, entitled professor marries gracious, naïve girl then moves them all to an isolated country home, which happens to be the setting of a previous, macabre murder.

Brundage leads us right up to the cliff of intrigue  - a possible ghost story, possible romance, possible psychosis, possible revenge, but she never pushes us over the cliff, and we just stand there waiting and waiting for the plot to plunge us into a really compelling, surprising story, and it just doesn’t happen. I really wanted to like this book, which could have been good but just wasn’t.


The Doctor’s Wife by Myra Hargrave McIlvain

Austin writer Myra Hargrave McIlvain’s book, Steinhouse, was one of my favorites in 2015. Having written many of the Texas roadside historical markers and much about Texas history, McIlvain has a deep and detailed dossier of material from which to draw her novels. But knowledge alone doesn’t create readable history. What makes McIlvain’s writing so readable is her extraordinary skill at extracting historic detail and weaving that with realistic, compelling characters to create stories that resonate with believability, cultural intrigue and adventure.

In The Doctor’s Wife, Ms. McIlvain tells the story of a young German girl who sails to Texas in the mid 1800’s, following the promise of the Adelsverein, a group of German noblemen committed to establishing a “new Germany” in Texas – including New Braunfels, Fredericksburg and many other communities. Upon arriving in Galveston, Amelia Anton had no reason to be there. The young son she’d been hired to tutor has died, not uncommonly, on the long voyage from Germany to Texas. Separated from her family, young, and isolated in a land raw with the turmoil of slavery and war with the Comanche Indians and the Mexicans, both of which were fighting off the American claims for Texas, Amelia goes to work in Galveston’s Tremont Hotel, cleaning and emptying chamber pots. Fortune finds her it seems, when she meets Dr. Joseph Stein, who takes Amelia as his wife and moves her to another Texas coastal town, Indianola, where he is desperately needed to help other German immigrants who are ill, stranded and waiting for safe passage to inland German communities.

What a blessing it seems for Amelia to become the wife of the handsome Dr. Stein, but we soon find that in addition to the extremely difficult lifestyle of primitive Indianola and early Texas settlement, Amelia is faced with a loving but agamous marriage. Desolate and confused, Amelia struggles to reconcile her relationship, finally finding love on a beautifully told adventure to New Orleans, which sadly ends in tragedy.

The reader turns each page looking for hope for Amelia, for the German settlers, for Texas, and even for Dr. Stein and his lover, Hans, all the while luxuriating in the sights, smells and sounds of the Texas coast, Galveston and New Orleans, as so elegantly and sharply penned by the author.

A dreadful smell grew stronger as their carriage neared the French Market, a broad low roof covering an arcade of open stalls. Next to the street, feathers flew from the hands of black children plucking chickens. Women tossed the guts into the drain moving sluggishly along the street. Vendors waved long, thin loaves of bread. A multitude of fruits and vegetables piled high on tables, and the aroma of coffee blended with a cacophony of languages.

The best of historic novels put us in a significant era of history, and in the spirit, passion and tragedy of the characters living that history, like Margaret Mitchell’s Gone With The Wind, Kathleen Winsor’s Forever Amber, and Myra Hargrave McIlvain’s The Doctor’s Wife. Ms. McIlvain has written an intriguing story about Texas history, in the context of particularly unconventional plot twists, and about characters for whom we grow to care.


A Gentleman in Moscow: A Novel by Amor Towles

A voracious reader, my mom probably read Nobel Prize winner Boris Paternak’s novel Dr. Zhivago before it became a multi-Academy Award winning movie in 1965, starring Julie Christie and Omar Sharif. And I suspect both had something to do with inspiring her to travel to Russia in 1967 with a group of teachers, when practically no one went to Russia, and the shadow of the cold war and Cuban Missile Crisis still very much defined that country. Dr. Zhivago is the story of a physician and poet, set during the Russian Revolution of 1917.

A Gentleman in Moscow is about Count Alexander Rostov a former aristocrat in The Russian Empire, who, having been accused of writing an anti-revolutionary poem, is sequestered for life by the Bolsheviks in one of the last bastions of pre-Bolshevik luxury, the Metropol Hotel.  The Washington Post astutely claims, “In an era as crude as ours‘A Gentleman in Moscow’ is a charming reminder of what it means to be classy.” And classy it is.

As with his previous novel, “Rules of Civility”, in A Gentleman in Moscow we become enraptured with the poetry of Amor Towles writing, which feels like good sex on real satin sheets with Lead Zeppelin’s Whole Lotta Love playing in the background. Unlike “Rules of Civility” we are also enraptured by the story – or perhaps more accurately, Count Rostov enraptures us. I want him to be my daddy, my husband, my child, or maybe just a distant uncle, for there was never before or since, anyone as cool as Count Rostov. Alexander Rostov turns imprisonment, albeit fairly luxurious imprisonment, into a fulfilling life well lived. The Count befriends the hotel chef and conspires for years in a country destitute of food, to collect the ingredients for a single night of Bouillabaisse. He beguiles and beds a famous Russian actress. He raises the child of a woman he met in the hotel when she was a child herself. He accomplishes amazing feats – the final of which constitutes one of the best book finishes I’ve ever encountered – all within the confines of a hotel. Here are a few Count Rostov observations that speak to his, and this book’s, allure.

 Count Alexander Ilyich Rostov stirred at half past eight to the sound of rain on the eaves. With a half-opened eye, he pulled back his covers and climbed from bed. He donned his robe and slipped on his slippers. He took up the tin from the bureau, spooned a spoonful of beans into the Apparatus, and began to crank the crank. Even as he turned the little handle round and round, the room remained under the tenuous authority of sleep. As yet unchallenged, somnolence continued to cast its shadow over sights and sensations, over forms and formulations, over what has been said and what must be done, lending each the insubstantiality of its domain. But when the Count opened the small wooden drawer of the grinder, the world and all it contained were transformed by that envy of the alchemists—the aroma of freshly ground coffee. In that instant, darkness was separated from light, the waters from the lands, and the heavens from the earth. The trees bore fruit and the woods rustled with the movement of birds and beasts and all manner of creeping things. While closer at hand, a patient pigeon scuffed its feet on the flashing.

Whether through careful consideration spawned by books and spirited debate over coffee at two in the morning, or simply from a natural proclivity, we must all eventually adopt a fundamental framework, some reasonable coherent system of causes and effects that will help us make sense not simply of momentous events, but of all the little actions and interactions that constitute our daily lives–be they deliberate or spontaneous, inevitable or unforeseen.

“It is not the business of a gentleman to have occupations.”


The Girl with the Lower Back Tattoo by Amy Schumer

I can only tolerate about 3 minutes of Amy Schumer in one of her stand-up shows, or in a movie, but I really liked her book, The Girl with the Lower Back Tattoo, which obviously is her humorous twist on the book The Girl with the Dragon Tattoo. Here’s why I like Amy’s book. First, she comes across as much more intelligent and funny in her book. Second, she has been taking really good care of her father, who has been living in assisted living for more than 20 years due to multiple sclerosis. Third, Amy, a victim of relationship abuse and sexual assault, has taken a vocal position urging re-thinking about what constitutes consensual sex. And finally, she and I are both introverts. I know, I know. No one believes I’m an introvert either. I totally got her description of having to cocoon occasionally – to isolate herself to recover from over stimulation.

The one thing I don’t get about Amy is her seeming refusal to forgive her mother, who she previously idolized, for having an affair with her best friend's father. It seems humans tend to be much more sympathetic of people from whom we have little expectations, and less sympathetic of people from whom we expect much.

The Girl with the Lower Back Tattoo is good enough, and was for me, an interesting study in Schumer’s generation.

When Breath Becomes Air by Paul Kalanithi


Dr. Paul Kalanithi couldn’t decide whether to be a brain surgeon or a writer, so he did both, very, very well. When Breath Becomes Air is Kalanithi’s story of finding out he had lung cancer (he was not a smoker) and dying, at the age of 37.

As with Lao Tzu’s proclamation, “The flame that burns twice as bright burns half as long,” Kalanithi had two BA’s and an MA in literature from Stanford, a Master of Philosophy at Cambridge, and graduated cum laude from the Yale School of Medicine, returning to Stanford for a residency in neurosurgery and a postdoctoral fellowship in neuroscience.

When first finding out about his cancer, his “Dr.” instinct is to research, to pinpoint the probability of living a year or a month – what he would do for his own patients facing death. But what he discovers is that how long a dying person has brings no comfort. “What patients seek is not scientific knowledge that doctors hide, but existential authenticity each person must find on her own … the angst of facing mortality has no remedy in probability.”

Seems there are lots of books written by and about people who are dying but I doubt you’ll find one more beautifully written, nor one with this special insight of a doctor treating the dying, who then himself becomes the dying. “I had pushed discharge over patient worries, ignored patients’ pain when other demands pressed. The people whose suffering I saw, noted, and neatly packaged into various diagnoses, the significance of which I failed to recognize — they all returned, vengeful, angry, and inexorable.”


American Heiress: The Wild Saga of the Kidnapping, Crimes and Trial of Patty Hearst by Jeffrey Toobin

Several generations remember where they were the day John Kennedy died, as do I. I also remember the moment I saw this photo of Patty Hearst on TV in 1974. I was a young mother living in the wilds of west Texas, about as removed as possible from that distinctly revolutionary period in our country’s history. I remember thinking, “Why would a small group of people take such legal risks just to be heard?” and “Why would someone kidnapped by a radical group take up their banner?” It all just seemed so far away from my reality, and so radical, and absurdly attractive for reasons I didn't understand.

Then I completely forgot about Patty Hearst and the Symbionese Liberation Army until 1981 when I was hired to manage a ranch in New Mexico and was told the ranch was formerly a survivalist commune and suspected hideout of the Symbionese Liberation Army, which was under surveillance by the FBI, trying to find Patty Hearst.

So basically, I have two pretty strong points of reference to Jeffrey Toobin’s book about the incident of Hearst’s kidnapping and eventual conviction of charges stemming from her collusion with the Symbionese Liberation Army in their various illegal activities, including bank robberies, kidnappings, attempts to bomb a police car and other similar activities.

Without a doubt, The New Yorker staff writer Toobin’s a smart guy (magna cum laude graduate of Harvard Law School), and although I’ve only read one other of his books The Nine: Inside the Secret World of the Supreme Court, which I thought was quite good, because I have an abiding curiosity about Patty Hearst, of course I had to read this book.

At the time of her kidnapping Hearst was a student at Berkeley, living with and engaged to one of her professors, and somewhat estranged from her parents – descendants of the legendary Hearst newspaper clan. The Symbionese Liberation Army was a small cell of left-wing revolutionaries, not uncommon during the politically tumultuous 1970’s. Just as they’d hoped, kidnapping a somewhat celebrity tied to a family with deep pockets, brought more recognition to their organization than practically anything else would have.

From that point forward, the story differs, depending upon whom you believe. Toobin and the legal system at the time believed that Hearst, resentful of (but not resistant to) the baggage that came with wealth, and unhappy in her relationship with her fiancé, welcomed the opportunity to break away from “the establishment” to establish her own identity – to the point of breaking laws and participating in deadly actions. After a lengthy hunt, many close escapes, almost inhuman living conditions, a horrific gun battle siege of several members of the army, and the eventual capture of Hearst and her compatriots, Patty claimed in her defense (led by the famous/infamous Texas attorney, F. Lee Bailey) that she was a victim, was raped, beaten and starved into submission, and had no choice but to be complicit with her captors.

Ironically, after condemning her rightwing, society-driven mother, living with the Symbionese Liberation Army for a year, and serving 22 months in prison (Commuted by President Jimmy Carter and granted a full pardon by President Bill Clinton) Patty Hearst married her “pig” policeman bodyguard, and became very involved in the East Coast society scene. In 2015 her Shih Tzu won the “Toy” category at the Westminster Kennel Club Dog Show.

If you have any interest in that revolutionary era of our country’s history you will probably enjoy this book.

100 Things I Want to Tell My Children And Grandchildren: #22



How to Fold a Fitted Sheet

I know this is pretty lame compared to the deeply philosophical lessons and stories I typically try to share in "My 100", but there are just some things that no one ever teaches you to do! 

Like how to fold a fitted sheet.  

I can’t tell you how many times I’ve tried to wrestle a fitted sheet into some semblance of order, and I bet you have too. 

So here ya go – one less life-frustration!

You are welcome.


Thursday, August 25, 2016

Cluster Critiques



The Association of Small Bombs by Karan Mahajan

Reports of a terrorist attack in Paris keeps us perched on the edge of our couch, horrified, vulnerable.  Three young boys sizzling with the joys of youth go to the market in Dehli, India on a Saturday morning and two of them, brothers, are killed instantly by a small terrorist bomb, and we never hear about it on the news. Small bombs in developing countries; who cares? Happens all the time.

The brilliance of The Association of Small Bombs, other than the fact that it is written brilliantly, is that it takes the story of religious terrorism out of the context of Islamic radicalism against capitalism, giving us a less defensive perspective. It’s not about us versus them, so we can relax into the story. It’s about eight people whose lives are destroyed, redirected and sustained by the small bombs of death, loss, love, disillusionment, religion and destiny.

The author, Karan Mahajan gets us off that comfortable couch of distance and puts our hearts in the bedroom with the two boy’s grieving parents, into the impossibly derailed life of the boy who survived the bombing, and into the tragically ordained lives of a non-violent Muslim activist and a violent Muslim radical. Each character roils in conflict, dissecting the trajectory of their lives in a desperate search for meaning and justification. Read The Association of Small Bombs.

Grunt: The Curious Science of Humans at War by Mary Roach

Mary Roach, in spite of having a regrettably creepy last name, is my alter-ego because she has an insatiable curiosity about the weirder aspects of otherwise ordinary things, and she is very funny. In Stiff: The Curious Lives of Human Cadavers, Mary wrote about what happens to the human anatomy after life has left it. The most fascinating parts were when she described how bodies donated to medical science are used – which led me to immediately change my medical directive. Scientists won’t be tossing my corpse out of a plane to see what happens when it hits the ground. And then there were her books about sex, Bonk, the digestive system, Gulp, Mars travel Packing for Mars, and ghost, Spook -  all of which I read practically within hours of their release.

So now in Grunt: The Curious Science of Humans at War Mary digs into military minutia to uncover the biggest challenges that come with soldiering, like diarrhea, panic, exhaustion, heat, flies and noise to name a few, and some unbelievably wonky things the war machine has spent millions concocting in its quest for world dominance. As it turns out snipers can’t have velcro pockets because they are noisy, and seaman on submarines have to eat caffeinated meat to stay awake and alert, and Hitler was nearly taken down by a stink bomb. When Roach ask a navy commander why they wore blue camouflage, he replied, “That’s so no one can see you if you fall overboard.”

Roach never fails to entertain and astound. I recommend you read all her books because you’ll laugh and you’ll learn – well maybe not super important stuff, but then I think learning why you shouldn’t donate your body to medical science without caveats is pretty important.   

Born with Teeth by Kate Mulgrew

Born With Teeth  is an autobiography by Kate Mulgrew, aka Red in the TV series Orange Is the New Black and Captain Janeway in Star Trek: Voyager. Although Mulgrew grew up in Middle America, geographically and economically, her childhood was anything but average. First, she really was born with teeth, literally. It’s a phenomenon called neonatal teeth, and they had to be removed. She also had a condition called congenital analgesia whereby she couldn’t feel pain, so she had to be restrained pretty much continuously for her own safety until she was around four, when the condition disappeared.

But the “born with teeth” double entendre is about her capacity for survival – much of which could pretty much mirror anyone’s life. We all have struggles of one sort or another. But what made Mulgrew’s book mostly readable and enjoyable for me was Kate and her mother’s extraordinarily intellectual and dispassionate take on life – that you’ve got to keep your head up and deal with what comes your way – no whining allowed. I say “mostly readable and enjoyable” because there were more than a few times in the book I felt Mulgrew was trying to impress rather than bare her soul - not in a name-dropping way, but rather in an “I’m so smart” way – and in fact she is, but sometimes it came across as scripted.

I saw a quote from her in the LA Times that I really liked in which she spoke of her very unglamorous role on Orange Is the New Black, she said, “There's a kind of liberty when you let go of your vanity and pay attention to your character. I want whatever I do for the rest of my life to be excellent or not to be done at all.”

Not the best biography I ever read, but certainly one of the better ones.

A Man on the Moon: The Voyages of the Apollo Astronauts by Andrew Chaikin

I was surprised at how much more graphic A Man on the Moon was compared to all the other books I’ve read about space travel.  The author, Andrew Chaikin, has an extraordinary capacity to place you in the moment. Your butt puckers when he details the emergency situations that accompanied nearly every single Apollo mission. You feel triumph when one of the astronauts solves a really complex problem. Each mission feels so urgent, dangerous and real, and Chaikin’s skill brings each moment to life. Unlike so many portrayals I’ve read and movies I’ve seen about the Apollo program, our astronauts weren’t just blasted into space and mostly controlled remotely, they were mechanics and problem-solvers and death-defying decision-makers. And then there were the men and women behind the space program at NASA – the lives they lived, their singular focus on launching humans into a virtually unknown abyss, and bringing them home safely.  

I’d also forgotten how many trips we made to the moon. Somehow I’d sort of mashed my memory of that time into one walk on the moon – there were nine missions to the moon. between 1968 and 1972. Twelve astronauts walked on the Moon's surface, and six drove Lunar Roving Vehicles on the Moon. Three astronauts flew to the Moon twice. If you have any interest in the details of the Apollo program this is the book to read. Very well done.


Very Smart Gals Salon


I lead the most fortuitous life - somehow stumbling into amazing situations – the most recent being the opportunity to judge a very large and highly regarded statewide pageant for girls in Dallas.  I knew nothing about judging a pageant when I went into this gig, and maybe I still don’t but I did learn three things.
  1. It’s a lot harder than it looks,
  2. The girls who won were the ones with the most poise, character, authenticity, grace, articulation, attitude, smile, and an ability to connect, and
  3. The girls who didn’t win were working on developing those skills.

And the bonus for me other than the honor of participating and getting to meet about 350 of the smartest little gals in Texas, was that I got to bond with six very smart grownup gals – my judging compatriots, Gina Johns, Andrea Nicole Sledge, Carol Lawson Johnston, Robin Dudasko, Mara Lee Burton and Leslie Hillin (pictured l-r above).

When I accepted the invitation to participate in the judging I was all aflutter, worrying about what to wear, how to be a judge, losing 50 pounds in a couple of weeks, but the six gals above were as centered as the earth’s core. They’d all judged before, they knew what they were doing, and they were kind enough to help me know where I was supposed to be, when, and how to get there. In spite of the fact that I donned an actual evening gown for the first time in a decade (photo) and got my hair (thanks to Victoria Doss) and makeup done (thanks to Ashley Sweeney) for the occasion, there’s not a lot of glamour in roaming the bowels of a convention center looking for the “backstage”. But then there eventually came my introduction as a judge, under a very bright spotlight, to an enormous room full of moms, dads, sisters, brothers, friends and neighbors, all of whom were exceedingly proud of a courageous little girl on the stage who wanted to be her very best. And that made me feel much more important than I really was or am. And it was fleeting but exciting, and very gratifying. 


Here’s a little about the Very Smart Gals who were my partners in judging:
Gina Johns is a 27-year educator with certifications in English as a second language, Dyslexia and Special Education, and says “she has a heart for students with special needs and has spent many hours tutoring, teaching and helping those students gain the best education possible”. She has also trained and coached volleyball, softball and cheerleading. Gina has been involved in pageantry for many years, not only judging throughout Texas, but also coaching girls for competition. She is an active volunteer in her community and church and enjoys supporting her two daughters, one of which is an NJCAA National champion in college softball.
Andrea Nicole Sledge is a Tax Accountant for GameStop, Inc. in Dallas, and a plus size model featured in Venus Diva, Skorch and Curvz Magazines. She has also competed in the Texas Plus America, Miss Curve, American Beauties Plus and All World (Queen of Queens Lifetime IV) Beauties Pageants, and has directed for Miss Plus America and served as the auditor and head judge for the DFW Miss America Pageant. Andrea believes that it is our duty “to live our lives with a servant’s heart” and as such, she is involved with many local charities.
Carol Lawson Johnston lives, as we say in Texas, “just up the road a piece” in Elgin, where she is the director of Down Home Ranch, a working farm and ranch where about 40 adults and children—including 32 with Down syndrome and other disabilities—live year round. She is the mother of four and says she “has watched with wonder as her children have fulfilled their dreams”. Her daughter is a former Miss Texas USA and her son has modeled with Tommy Hilfiger and Dillard’s. Carol is certified Christian counselor and has a ministry that reaches out to parents who have wayward children that are caught up in alcohol and drugs.
Robin Dudasko recently graduated with honors from Texas A&M and married her college sweetheart. She too lives just up the road a piece in Round Rock where she is Director of Youth Ministry at St. John Vianney Catholic Church. In 2013, after 8 years of competing, Robin captured the title of National American Miss Texas. She is also a former Miss Austin and placed in the top 10 at the National All-American Teen pageant in Hollywood, California. Throughout her reign as National American Miss Texas she traveled throughout the state speaking to groups about cyber-bullying.
Mara Lee Burton, another nearby neighbor from Round Rock, is a classically trained singer who has performed on stages across the country, including New York and New Orleans, and has sung the national anthem for many sporting events. Mara participated in many pageants as a young girl, including Junior Miss and Miss Teen Texas, winning the talent competition several times throughout her pageant career. She has a BS in History from Texas State University where she coached gymnastics and had back-to-back state champion teams. She also has a Master’s Degree in Liberal Studies with a double focus in American Studies and Civil Rights and Social Justice from Southern Methodist University.
Leslie Hillin, a graduate of Lamar University with a Masters of Education, is currently a middle school counselor at Edwards Johnson Memorial Silsbee Middle School in Silsbee.  She has been working as a special education teacher for the past 26 years.  She has judged pageants at the state level and enjoys working with the Miss Amazing Texas Pageant.  She and her husband of 30 years have two children and one grandchild.  Leslie enjoys spending her summers at the lake with family and friends.

These Very Smart were just some of the most humble, nice gals you’d ever want to meet, and I so much appreciated their guidance, patience and camaraderie.